To be fair, Tough Dog does say to put the taller spring on the DS. reevesci is probably telling you not to do that because of my experience, and because TonyP and someone else (sorry I can't recall who it was offhand) installed LH and RH as marked and were both dead on. I agree that most people should put the taller spring on the PS, like Toyota did, but I would let yours settle for 500-1000 miles and see if it stays within 1/2" or if the difference gets better or worse, then decide. If it's only 1/2", I do think trim packers are a better solution, since unless you have a lot of weight in the rear swapping will likely result in a slight lean the other way.
I've not removed the panhard bar. Maybe I'll try that next time, if I ever need to take it apart again. I unbolted the sway bar from the axle, not from the end link, FWIW. Even with the sway bar completely detached from the axle it still requires more muscle on the PS side than I feel it should. It's really a 2 man job in my experience, though I can confirm it's technically possible to do it by yourself...