Are you asking about the difference between the low-end ~$1000 OME kit compared to the ~$3000 BP-51s?
I think you probably know that most setups are also going to suggest you include upper control arms (UCAs) in whatever you do to get caster back into spec, so that's another ~$600 on top of whatever lift you select.
Starting with the lower-end stuff: I think the $1k kits (OME, Ironman, etc) are non-adjustable, non-rebuildable monotube gas or foam-filled shocks; I don't think they will have any fancy valving and are about as sophisticated as your basic $50 Bilstein or Koni off the shelf. When they wear out, you'll need to replace the dampeners themselves. From a comfort perspective I believe many in the community believe them to be relatively harsh.
What I don't feel is talked a lot about are that there's sort of a mid-tier option (which is what I'm going with) between the low-end stuff and the full-tilt desert racing setups, both in terms of price and capability.
Originally I wanted to go down this path with Bilstein parts and parts-bin a solution together, but got stymied by a lack of properly-valved rear dampeners in their catalog for the 200 series. They're working on some solutions right now, and once they hit the market they'll probably blow the OME setup away on performance at a very similar price (I would expect their 6112/5160 to retail right around what their Tundra kit costs today, with is right at $1k, but remember you'll also need to go buy rear springs and UCAs.)
So what's available today? There are rebuildable and adjustable coilover monotubes made by a couple manufacturers like Icon, King, and Fox - these are typically going to have wider shock bodies with more oil volume and therefore have more ability to put up with abuse versus the low-end dampeners, adjustable height settings, fancier valving, and maybe even have some settings for adjusting ride quality. Keep in mind that while these will also have a finite service life, most of these should be rebuildable, and while that process is probably more expensive than simply replacing bog-standard monotubes their ride quality and capability should offset that.
Then there's the higher-end options, getting into the OME BP-51s, the Icons, King, and Fox stuff with remote reservoirs on all 4 corners, etc. I see these kits (including UCAs) starting around $3000 and going well north of $5k just for parts. They're going to be even fancier than the mid-tier, have the ability to put up with more heat and abuse during intense driving (whoops, dunes, etc) and may also afford (like in the case of the BP-51s) both adjustable rebound and dampening. They will also be rebuildable.
A side note: I think some people might see the Lambo in your sig and think this dude may be a cost-is-no-object sort of person, but conversely I suspect most people with cash to spend on fun stuff try to spend it wisely, lest they no longer have that cash. In my estimation
for many people these high-end kits may be overkill; I myself am not going to be racing our truck in the Baja anytime soon, and wanted both quality and increased capability, but without significant ride quality sacrifice, so went with the mid-tier level. My total outlay before install is about $2400 in parts for an Icon V.S. 2.5" series kit and SPC UCAs. I have heard some guys say you may NOT need the UCAs, but I don't want to mess around with nervous steering due to poor caster angles (especially with my wife driving the truck about half the time) so I'm just going to do it all at once.
With all that said, I don't have it yet and it's not installed yet, so we'll see if I regret not going with the 'overkill' options.
