Might be too late, but here's what I did:
When I bought my FJ62 back in 2000, the PO had already installed an ARB but he had a bad habit of driving by Braille, those tow hooks were pretty much smashed flat and useless:
I bought a couple of pre-fab'd tabs, they were cut and drilled out of 3/4" bar stock:
I plasma'd holes just to the side of the frame mounts, just big enough to pass the tabs through. I drilled the tabs and frame mounts (that was tough, busted a few knuckles getting the big Milwaukee drill in there), bolted the tabs to the frame mounts, then welded them up really well.
Worked out well, shackles fit well, and the were VERY strong, at least as strong as the bumper.
While I had the bumper off I added another antenna mount, and a couple of brackets at the ends that let me Hi-Lift the truck easily if necessary: