gray rider
SILVER Star
But, but,....gotta have me a split tailgate!Not crazy to consider a LX, but I would suggest a GX might be a better fit if you don't tow heavier stuff. Same overall Lexus quality that you appreciate in your wife's RX, but cheaper to buy and maintain, a little easier on gas. @eatSleepWoof 's suggestion of another RX is not a bad one if you can get over the image of the car. To me, it's an old lady car (both my wife and daughter drive RX's and I give them both grief about their old lady cars).
One word of caution since you're in Indiana: rust is the LX's number one arch-enemy. The AHC suspension system is susceptible to rust and when it starts corroding away, you're at risk of complicated and expensive repairs (unless you're an avid home mechanic). The system is perfectly reliable and honestly pretty awesome compared to traditional suspension if maintained and kept rust free.