in the end , i drained all the oil out of its pan and all of the tranny fluid out of it's pan. I went to NAPA and got 3 qts of their dexron3/merc tranny fluid... cause I couldnt find the post on here that listed what the good tranny fluid is. I had about 4 qts oil 5w-30 left that I hadn't poured into the engine.
Since I already had tranny fluid in the oil collection pan and was warned bot to mix the 2 in the engine and because I wanted all fresh oil in the engine...
I poured the 3 qts of tranny fluid in the tranny and then the 4 qts of oil into the engine... loaded up the family and drove about 70 miles and then got worried about the oil level. Went advance and got more qts of the same oil. Saw steam or smoke coming from somewhere down in the engine...It was snowing and then started figuring I didnt have enough tranny fluid in it. So I got 2 qts of mobil tranny fluid. Poured about 1.5 more qts of tranny fluid. I had drained about 4 qts out of the tranny pan.
The strange thing is something my dad had told me years ago... If you pay attention to a car...if you listen to it, it will tell you when something isnt right. It wasn't sounding feeling right before I put the fluids into it. Afterwards if felt stronger... it sounded like what I am used to it sounding like.
The one issue is that there is so much oil sticking to the dipstick when I pull it out... no matter how much I wipe it off when I stick it back in , when I pull it back out there is some oil on it for maybe 4-5" to the bottom. When we have a warm day I will try to get a really accurate feel for how much of both fluids is really in the truck