The one thing i have taken to heart here so far is that i should not rush it. Just because it has been a whirlwind purchase doesnt mean i need to stay in that mode.
Well I am official. I bought the LC last night. The Jeep goes bye bye tomorrow. After reading the threads here I went with Toyota parts for the timing belt and brake pad sets. Thanks Toyo72 for the list. I actually ordered the parts from Cruiserdan, a big contributor to 80 series here. He was extremely helpful in general and gave MUD discounts. his number is 800-432-6668. He definitely is an OEM guy. I spoke with Slee folks, who also know Cruiserdan, and am going to go with 2.5 medium lift. I am struggling with what to do about catalytic replacement and exhaust system. Dont want droning but thinking of cat back system, and will read up on your catalytic stock vs aftermarket. there seems to be a massive difference in price. Still working on wheels and tires.
Glad to see you're taking your time...

Hey, not judging. Who am I to question the allure of modding / fixing the new toy? Best of luck, and congrats on the purchase.