PCV = positive crankcase ventilation. It's a closed system to feed positive pressure from the crankcase to the intake system. It was originally to stop engines ingesting water during river crossings, but is now done for environmental reasons.
A PCV valve is not present on this era of diesels.
All engines will produce some blow-by vapour, but if it streams out white oily fumes when you rev the engine with the PCV hose disconnected at the valve cover, it's a sign your engine is very worn and could do with a rebuild.
Oil kills rubber slowly, so your intake hoses will slowly deteriorate and stop sealing, hence the creeping oil around the joints.
Catch cans divide people and can cause more problems (have a read on the topic) if they are not well designed and installed. If you have bad blow-by, I would run a long hose into a chassis rail.
The brown stuff is not good. If you lived in the Australian outback it might be red dust getting past the filter, but that's not going to happen in Denmark (or was the vehicle originally Australian?). Which makes me wonder if that is rusty water or even coolant getting in.