Nice 40! Looks like a factory pto winch on there, cool. Yeah, the bezel around the headlights is upside down. The wide part actually is supposed to be on top. There are lots of "bezel police" on ih8mud.
Great you are teaching your daughter to drive the manual transmission. My 17 year old is getting the swing of it on my FJ40. She has already laid claim to it so she has to get that one down!