I have Ironman Foam Cell Pro on my 2013 Land Cruiser and I don't like it at all. On the highway is rough but not composed, and I can feel the rear end kick when hitting bumps at speed. Off-road on typical Colorado trails I get jostled around a lot. Similar to driving an F250. It does surprisingly well on washboards and large rolling bumps that you could go airborne on. It soaks up those pretty well. Quick hits like a rock sticking 4 inches out of the road or speed bumps are not absorbed unless I'm driving at a ridiculous speed. I have the performance springs as those were the only option for a 2" lift. The performance spring is rated for 0-110 lbs in the front, and 0-660 in the rear. The above experience was with a 700 lb load counting driver and passenger. When loaded down with 1500 lbs the ride was passable but not great. These shocks are getting removed as soon as possible.
This sounds like a spring rate issue. I'm not a suspension expert however i had it explained to my by an expert and it made sense, I'll try to share that.
The spring's job is to suspend the weigh of the vehicle, I think we all get that. There are a few different ways to achieve lift. Imagine you have a spring a foot long sitting on the floor. You put 1000lb weight on it. Your weight is now 10 inches from the floor but you want it to be 11 inches. You can change the spring to a stiffer spring of the same length so it does not compress as much, you can install a longer spring of the same rate so when it compresses you achieve the desired height, or you can put a book 1inch thick under the spring you have.
Since you are getting a harsh ride it sounds like your spring rate is too high. Remember the shock's job is to control the spring, both on compression and rebound. You can add weight which lots of folks here do in the form of bumpers, skid plates, sliders, drawer systems, etc. Does ironman have different valving in shocks that are fitted with higher rate springs?
I just looked at the ironman website and to achieve your desired 2" lift they only have two springs. One that says 0-110LB payload, and another that says 110-220lb.
Judging from the pic of
@ga12r1 's truck, he has added a bit more. I see bumpers, sliders, skid plates, a winch, a RTT, an awning (very nice setup!). His truck rides great. So my guess is ironman is banking on their users adding more weight than they are advertising on their website. All speculation on my part as I have not researched their spring rates.
I'm sure there are a lot of people on here who know way more about this than I do, and I hope they correct me where I am wrong so I learn too.