Cant use the steering stops...well I suppose technically you could, but you will quickly rip the arms off the knuckle.
Depends on if your box was the limiting factor as well. The ram cannot extend any further if the box is bound up.
It is a bit of a balance tho. If the ram is too long, you are putting undue stress on your steering knuckles and stops. If it's too short, you are limiting the steering ability of the axle. a custom ram is not all that expensive honestly. I had a 4.5" ram made for my 40 when it was running cruiser axles to deal with some REALLY short arms I had made by OTT. It worked fine and was not that bad.
I'm going to put a 6" ram on Bob even though the stock throw is a bit under that..