So ... I was trying to wire up my high beams tru a relay so that they would trigger my Bumper LED lights,
right now they are wired with a switch and relay in the cab. (Standard Setup)
When I did my backup lights. I used a Diode on the + lead I got straight from my backup circuit so I can use the in cab switch and turn them on.. Or.. they come on when I put it in reverse triggered by the stock backup lights circuit, Diode keeps current from flowing back to the OEM backup circuit....
So I thought I would do the same for my front bumper LED lights triggered by my high beams easy peasy.. Right?
Well I took out my high beam bulb.. Used my 12V tester to see which side was hot when I flashed my high beams.. and to my surprise both leads on to the bulb turn on my light tester
Scratching my head going WTF??? .. I decided to see about the low beams so I unplugged the low beam put my tester on the plug.. and as I expected one side no juice one side juice when I turn on my lights..??? So what gives? Are the high beams wired in some strange way?
And more importantly where can I get a lead to trigger my LED bumper lights when I turn on my high beams? 
I must add my lights both low and high beam work just fine.. So what's the deal with the high beam circuit?
97 FZJ80 Stock headlights harness.. unmolested.. and work just fine..
right now they are wired with a switch and relay in the cab. (Standard Setup)
When I did my backup lights. I used a Diode on the + lead I got straight from my backup circuit so I can use the in cab switch and turn them on.. Or.. they come on when I put it in reverse triggered by the stock backup lights circuit, Diode keeps current from flowing back to the OEM backup circuit....
So I thought I would do the same for my front bumper LED lights triggered by my high beams easy peasy.. Right?
Well I took out my high beam bulb.. Used my 12V tester to see which side was hot when I flashed my high beams.. and to my surprise both leads on to the bulb turn on my light tester

I must add my lights both low and high beam work just fine.. So what's the deal with the high beam circuit?

97 FZJ80 Stock headlights harness.. unmolested.. and work just fine..