So, I solved this. When you call Howell they'll tell you that you get the color codes from the factory manual. Okay, did that, not making any sense. Get to the C2 connector on the Throttle Control Actuator and the colors are not the same. Call Howell -
Howell - Oh ya, we changed those.
Me - Well fxxx me. Can I get the color codes for the harness I have?
Howell - Well, they are factory colors.
Me - But you just told me they were changed.
Howell - Ya, we had to change those.
Me - can I get what you're looking at?
that went on for several minutes. Turns out they changed the colors of 2 of the 4 wires in the cruise control bundle (and from what I could see, quite a few others in the TAC module).
So I had what I needed in the cab the entire time, there was just no way to know that. Not very happy with Howell this morning.
So for 2005 Howell harness
The cruise one that supposed to be Grey is Brown w/ white strip
The resume/accell that supposed to be grey/black is light green
The stop lamp that supposed to be light blue is a kind of grey blue that is not at all obvious.