Oil is like religion - it's best to simply state your beliefs, and let others do the same - but any effort to persuade someone to your camp is an excersise in frustration & futility.
That said, I run Mobil 1 5-30 & the bigger case size 1515 Napa filter. I only do about 12,000 miles annually & only change it once a year.
I can tell you that BMW originally spec'ed a 0 - ? Mobil 1 synthetic oil in a recent model (I don't remember which - if you want to search, Bimmerforums.com will have the answer) ---- But the big issue as the story was told to me was the oil was a nightmare to keep it in the motor - they lost it out the gaskets, the main seals, and the tailpipe --- so they changed the spec'ed oil to a 5 - ? Mobil 1 synthetic & that cured things aside from some gaskets that were replaced under warrenty for the existing cars out there running 0-w? oil.
It might have been the current generation 5 series, as that's what a friend's & fellow BMW guy's Mom drives & I'd swear I heard it from him.
If BMW used that as a solution, that would tell me what I'd do.
Best of luck - both in oil & religion. --- Ben