Hhmm...if you blew a fuse then there was a short somewhere that blew that fuse. I would check the operation of your switch and make sure that's working. The way the FSM recommends that you check the grid is to use a voltmeter and some aluminum foil on the leads of your meter.
This is what it says:
INSPECT FOR WIRE BREAKAGE POINT:
(a) Place the voltmeter positive lead against the defogger positive terminal.
(b) Place the voltmeter negative lead with the foil strip against the heat wire at the positive terminal end and slide it toward the negative terminal end.
(c) The point where the voltmeter deflects from zero to several volts is the place where the heat wire is broken.
Another check in the FSM:
Inspect the voltage at the center of each heat wire as shown.
Voltage: Criteria:
Approx. 5V Okay (No break in wire)
Approx. 10V or 0V Broken wire
Note: If there are 10V, the wire is broken between the center of the wire and positive end. If there is no voltage, the wire is broken between the center of the wire and ground.
I don't know if you have the FSM or not, but I thought I'd post those up for you if they help. Good luck. FWIW, my defogger sucks too and I need to check it out sometime. Seems that the grid is okay, but it's SUUUUPER SLOOOOOOW...never really heats up enough to work, but I see faint indications that there is a tiny bit of current flowing through the wires.