I also recently got into this hobby, after trying 30+ years ago and not being able to deal with the code test. There's an HRO store about 4 blocks from my house, so I can easily go play with anything they sell. I bought the FT-8800R radio, and I think I may have over-bought, sometimes I wish I had just went with the lesser 7800. The dual sides of the radio can get confusing sometimes, you have to be really careful. It's also a real pain to deal with programming, if you program all the local stuff on one side, there doesn't appeat to be any way to just clone it over to the other side, you have to start over. I finally caved in and bought the programming software and cable the other day, but I haven't tried it out yet, I need to figure out a way to power the radio up from here at my computer desk.
I have a Larsen NMO2/70B on a magmount, it seems to work very well. I'll convert it to a permanent NMO mount as soon as the weather gets nice and I have the time to pull the headliner down.
I also am considering an HT, looking mostly at the FT-60R. I also really don't like how they have eliminated the squelch controls on the newer models.
My other problem is what to do at home. I borrowed an old Radio Shack HTX-202 HT, but I can't even get the thing near my computer, the inteference from the computer dirtys the reception too much, I can't get the squelch to close. Maybe it's because it's such an old radio, but I don't think so. We're in the midst of a major storm event here now, I'd love to be able to monitor the local ARES net while I'm sitting here working, but I have to keep the radio across the room. I really need a decent antenna on my roof.