I found the answer. After much searching, I found
this harness at Wit's End. It was out of stock (and pricey!), but the web page includes a wiring diagram and the advice that if you need a solution sooner than they are back in stock to use the diagram and figure out your own solution. Well, after a lot of trial and error, and one burned up OEM locker switch and LED indicator light (doh!) I finally figured out how to get this to work properly, along with adding two LED indicator lights that light when the Rear and Front locker(s) are selected.
The diagram is exactly how you need to wire this up, with one omission. If you wire this exactly as is diagrammed, your locker switch will work, and the LED(s) will light when each locker is engaged, but when you turn the compressor off, both locker LED indicators turn back on. If you turn the compressor on, they will go out, until you again activate the lockers with the OEM switch. The fix to the LED indicator issue is to wire a diode between the solid red wire and the black wire that you have to snip (with the direction of current flow being from red to black) as indicated on the wiring diagram and on the instructions on the Wit's End page. I've indicated on the edited diagram below where the diode needs to go and the direction of current flow.
I used a 3 amp diode for this, but I ain't no electrical engineer, so this may or may not be the best choice for this application. That said, do this mod at your own risk and consult someone much smarter than me for advice.
One thing to note: on the diagram it indicates that there needs to be a diode on each of the: red/yellow wire running from pin 2 on the ARB compressor isolation switch to ignition power, and the blue/white wire running from pin 6 on the isolation switch to dash illumination. If you use the ARB wiring harness, the diodes are already wired in to the ARB wiring harness; no need to add anything additional.
It's also worth pointing out that this is only to be used with the ARB twin compressor as is indicated on the instructions on Wit's End site. Props to the folks at Wit's End for the inspiration and the mostly-complete wiring diagram. Go buy something from them, they've got lots of great parts and specialized tools.
I'm into this for about $100, which is a reasonable deal for me to be able to keep an OEM look for the compressor and locker switches.
Parts needed:
-I got the OEM switch (84725-60020) from Partsouq for about $47 IIR
-I got some really small, unobtrusive
12 Volt LEDs from Amazon (since we obviously don't have indicator slots for lockers in the dash cluster of the GX, I skipped the OEM lightbulbs and dash pigtail terminal parts listed in the Wit's End site). $6.50 ea.
-(1) OEM harness connector (90980-10631) - $18 from McGeorge Toyota
-(3) OEM switch terminal pigtails (82998-12170) - $4.50 from McGeorge Toyota
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This diode from Amazon - 7.50 for 20-pack
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CH4x4 Twin Compressor OEM-style switch -$20
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Mini ATM add-a-circuit harness - $6.50
Here's a pic of where i put this diode:
The wiring diagram with my diode edit:
And, just for your entertainment - the rat's nest of my working test setup. Yep, that's painter's tape - don't judge:
Now to get this all prettied up and run in the truck, and throw those three ugly ARB locker rocker switches in the lake.