Well 4 hours later and I have my new starter installed. I ordered it from cruiserdan for about $200 plus a $30 core. I followed the instructions in the faq and it went great, some minor bleeding but thats to be expected. The key tip for removing the starter bolt on the drivers side is to remove the 10mm bolt on top of the bellhousing holding the wires that are blocking the bolt. After removing it all I needed was a 14mm deep socket, 1 knuckle, 3/8 ratchet and about 2 minutes. The reason I went with a starter from cruiserdan was I read 1 thread where the guy put the contacts in wrong and it obviously didn't work so I figured I'd take care of 1 potential problem that way. This turned out to be quite easy to do and by the way I did this by myself. 
so i had the pleasure doing it all over again. Replaced it with a Bosch from NAPA. I actually liked the Bosch better than the OEM, seemed a bit beefier.