I type this with RTV covered hands and frustration. I went about the day today to replace the bottom stud on my rear diff. I had hit a rock a few months back and it ground down the nut and a little of the stud threads and was leaking about a 1/2 dollar size oil spot every day. So I bought a new stud from Camelback Toyota and began the teardown process today. Locked up the diffs and put it on jackstands. Pulled the axles out, took off the actuator off, and dropped the 3rd member. Everything was going good, replaced the stud, slid the 3rd member back on and slid the axles in. When I put the shift fork around the sleeve I was pretty sure the of the orientation of the shift fork. It can be install 2 different ways. The best description I can give is that the little slide thing is at the bottom. (this could be wrong) I went ahead and slid the actuator in and thru the shift fork hole and put in the bolt. I had a little trouble getting the actuator to seat tight, took some time, but while pushing the actuator tight, I got the 4 bolts in. Should I have had to push to make it seat? (this could of been another problem) I then put the cover on (that has the little button on the inside) I plugged the plug in, and filled it with oil. Started it up, turned the dial to unlock and put it in High. Front diff light went out, not the rear. I did this at the in-laws and after making a bunch of turns in the dirt lot across the street, turning the dial a bunch of times, it never unlocked. I drove 5 miles home with the rear locked, and of course i was going slow and took corners super slow. I guess I have to dig into it again tomorrow, i just thought a few of you guys would see where I screwed up and let me know. Im gonna dig around on 'mud and see if I cant find some write-up or pictures to make sure I put it back together correctly. Obviously I didnt. Should of just left that damn oil leak and topped the diff off every few months. 
