I think it's just absolutely crazy that out of the 5 or so places that even make 3rd Gen 4Runner rear bumpers, only one of them will ship. And even if you just so happen to live nearby one of the places that makes them and can just drive on over, they expect you to leave your truck there while they make it?

And ever talked to SS about theirs?--he says they have to custom make every single bumper cause every 4runner is too different? and he refuses to make them with a tire carrier because the once or twice they did make them, it was a total disaster...what does that even mean?

That just doesn't make sense to me. How can all these other offroad/fab shops make swingout tire carriers for their rear bumpers? Don't get me wrong, SS makes some nice stuff and I've got a bit of it on my Runner, but I just don't understand what their deal is with the rear bumpers (and a few other things).
Dunno much about all the other shops, but in my mind, if they advertise that they make the bumper for such-and-such a vehicle, they should be able to ship. Otherwise, they should just advertise that they are a custom fab shop that can make custom rear bumpers for any vehicle you bring on by.
That being said, I was just about to commit to an Irbis bumper just for the fact that they ship them-- it was a total bonus that they just so happen to build rock solid stuff--but then I found a local guy that would make me a custom one and do it for dirt cheap. My cost was about half what Irbis costs. It didn't turn out completely perfect but I believe that that was my fault as I rushed the guy to get it done in about a week so I could have it in time for this past Cruise Moab. But its solid enough for my style of wheeling and looks good from about 5 feet away.--get up close and you can see its not perfect. The guy said he'd love to make more of them though he'd need to charge a wee bit more than what I paid. I can find out a price if anybody's interested. The guy owns a 3rd gen so he builds it up around his and then pulls it back off. (BTW his is a '98 and mine is an '02. The factory rear bumper mounts were slightly different, but in the end, both of our trucks had the same bolt holes and could have easily swapped factory bumpers around. He actually used my factory rear bumper mounts on his to put his back on) Oh, and if he doesn't want to ship, hell I'll do it as long as you pay shipping.
I've debated selling mine off and having the guy build me another one and allowing him to spend more time on it (and changing a few things for being able to carry gas cans and hi-lift) or even still getting an Irbis and I still might actually do that.
Anyway, I'll throw some pics of mine up within a day or two.
So my vote is, check with local fab shops and see what they can do or go with Irbis (or I can check with my guy to see if he wants to do another one).
-Ferg-