Figured it out!
Ok, so there is no fluid movement, none has been pushed into trans coolers. I did fill the converter with fluid and installed it properly per the manual. So the pump is not being engaged by the converter.
Ok, so here is the bomb, the toyota part #'s for trans pump and interplanetary shaft are different on trucks with a build date after 8/92. That means the a440 and a442 do not share the same pump and shaft, and the adapter was designed to use the a442 pump and shaft.
But Dustin said it would work? Dustin messed up, he told me that when he went to a used parts supplier to check out the differences in the pump, they might have given him two a442's instead of one of each. Looks like that is what happened. Bummer that he didn't do a little more research. It took me two minutes at the dealer to get the #'s. Oh well.....
There was one other guy that has tried to use the a440 according to Dustin. He wasn't succesful either. Which makes sense.
So the solution is simple, swap in the A442.
Or what about spacers between the flexplate and converter, meh, they would be impossible to put in. And add some stress to plate too.
So I am open to other suggestions, but it looks like the best one is to swap the trans, It worked on the Predator(I've seen the video), so we know it works with the adapter!