I am doing the same thing, my plan is to have a "doghouse" of 5 gauges on top of my dash eventually: mechanical oil pressure and coolant temp, vacuum, voltage, and air pressure (for the on-board air setup). I already bought the gauges, I'll try to post the AutoMeter numbers when I get home.
IMO, I wouldn't bother with the SR5 gauge package. I have them, they are notoriously inaccurate, pretty worthless. I want them to be correct. My OEM temp gauge starts out in the C position, then after about 2 mins it hops up to the middle of the gauge, then never moves. I don't trust it.
The oil pressure is easy. I'm leaving the OEM gauge hooked up and functional, not messing with the stock sender either. If you look on the engine in the center of the pass side engine mount, where it bolts to the block, you'll find another little plug screwed into a hole tapped into the oil galley, the same galley that the stock gauge measures the pressure from. The AutoMeter mechanical gauges uses a little brass fitting that screws into a 1/8" NPT hole. The hole in the block is very close to, but slightly smaller than this size. The thread pitch is darned close to exactly the same. All I had to do was take a 1/8" NPT tap and run it in this hole about half way, with some grease as some cutting aide. This captures the cuttings, but as a safety I also stuck a vacuum into the galley so suck out any cuttings (my timing cover was not installed yet). It might take a few test trials to get the threads cut deep enough, but it was really easy cutting.
Here's a shot with the brass fitting installed, along with the OEM sender. Note also the OEM block heater installed in the forward freeze plug.
I think this is totally doable with the engine still in the truck, BTW. You'll probably have to put a jack under the engine and remove that engine mount.
For the temp, I found a spot on the very front of the lower intake manifold, just behind the two forward green and brown sensors. I'm gonna drill and tap that spot for 1/2" NPT for the mechanical gauge. I haven't done it yet, but I'm certain it will fit.
That's my plan...