I just had a problem with my driver's headlight coming on spontaneously after it rained. After some fiddling with the dimmer relay, the driver light wouldn't come on for low beam but would for high beam. I found one of the contacts in the dimmer relay was actually contacting when it shouldn't--that killed the driver light on low beam. This evil center tap thing is truly funky because you actually need certain contacts in the relay to be open for the light to be on.
I don't think I can explain anything further than to say you might consider pulling down your dimmer relay, pulling off the metal cover, plug it back into the wiring harness, turn the lights off and on, high beam-low beam, watch the relay in action, and do some trial and error with the contacts. That's all I did. Not very scientific but it worked for me.
The dimmer relay is up under the dash just to the right of the steering column (on my 42 at least). You can find it also by listening as you turn the lights on and off or hitting the high beams etc.
I'm sure you have, but have you tried switching headlights to make sure it's not your headlight?
HTH
B