rchalmers3
I speak Toyota
rchalmers3, I will do some research o the programmable 6.5. I was taught to work on modern cars and diagnose problems with obd systems, but it's been some time and many of those skills have left me. Are they as plug and play friendly as say the vortec system? If so I might just look into that at my #1 swap on the list.
To keep the cost within reason, I do not recommend starting with a 6.2L and trying to make it into a 6.5L by adding a turbo and the drive accessory pieces. Yes the 6.2L with the lower compression will readily accept a turbo, but why do all the expensive after rigging? Shoot, you practically have to buy 2 motors to make one! That is counter to your goals of dropping in an affordable, ready unit that is engineered to work as is.
Your specific questions about tweaking the 6.5L can be answered elsewhere: Diesel Place - Duramax Diesel Discussion Forums If you had training and experience in feedback, closed loop systems, you have everything you need to fully implement a 6.5L into your project. The players are the same as gassers, and performance technology exists to dial in the performance you desire.
Regarding the straight 6 Isuzu, I have driven a land cruiser with the 6bt. It may produce great torque and power, but it is also noisy. I cannot answer if it is too much motor, my buddy drives his tamely and it's holding together.
You and your wife will probably be best served if you swap in a diesel that does not detract from the daily experience of driving. If it is noisy or vibration prone, the project won't be a complete success. Maybe you should reach out to fellow mud members and drive a few different swaps for a comparison???
Rick