After a long period of chasing some issues I finally figured out that my TCM is not working properly. I opened it up to see if I could verify that it has an internal problem before replacing it, and here is what I found:

Do any of you guys have a 450-43LE TCM out of a vehicle where you could pull the top cover off and check the resistor value? The only damage appears to be this resistor and it looks like I had a short in my TC lockup circuit that caused it to fry. As per the photo, it is one of the four similar resistors, side by side, near the connector end of the board, just behind the big wide plug (widest of the three). The photo should allow you to find it. I am not sure that the Isuzu TCM is the same, but it is worth a shot.
Also, if anyone has a spare TCM, Isuzu or Mitsubishi, send me a PM... It looks like I might be buying one.
Thanks