We had to leave one camping spot simply because we couldn't get the (lag bolt) stakes to hold tight enough.
I have been using spring bar tents for 30 years and these Kodiak tents are basically a copy of springbar tents.
I am confused as to why your stakes would pull up when setting the tent up. If anything the upright Poles on the these tents should hold the stakes in the ground.
Typically I stake the 4 corners of my springbar along with the two middle stakes on the ends where the upright Poles sit.
Next I will insert the spring bars and the spreader on the roof getting everything tight.
At this point I set the upright pole to the lowest height and than I stick the base of the upright pole up against the middle side stake and lift the roof up above the upright pole and set it onto the top of the pole.
Than I do the same on the opposite side. Before trying to extend the upright poles and tension the tent I place the rest of the stakes and sometimes reposition the corners.
Tensioning the uprights shouldn't create enough stress to pull any stakes, at least not on any of my springbars. I can set mine up in the loose dry sand in dunes with no problems assuming no wind.
Do yourself a favor and buy some better quality stakes. These are a great bang for the buck and work great is loose sand or snow.

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