A Small Interlude (on “Moving On”):
My grandmother passed away earlier this week. Granma Sen (pronounced Zen) was born on May 28th, 1928… yes, 1928, right before the Depression. Her Dad passed away in 1933, when she was just five. Can you imagine? What tough times must she have gone through early on! I heard of those, in the manner that those born in those days speak of it… you moved on. “
Grapes of Wrath,” that sobering Henry Fonda movie comes to mind. You didn’t complain, you put one foot in front of the other and you moved on. Times were rough, but you moved on. They didn’t have everything they wanted, but they moved on.
She fell in love and married my grandfather at 17, with four kids to quickly follow by the time she was in her early 20’s. What tough times THOSE must have been! Yet she never complained, or at least I do not remember her ever complaining about her lot in life. She moved on. She raised two of her thirteen grandkids herself, and also a great grandkid, and she never complained, she moved on. She moved on through the death of my grandfather in 1999… all the way through December 7th, 2015.
What do I remember the most? The time she took care of me after I got bit in the butt by the neighborhood’s stray dog

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… being only 6 or 7 at the time. I remember crying my eyes out when she left to live out of State for a few years back in ’78… and I remember how she suffered as she learned of my struggles in college early on.
Yet, why did I hesitate to go home and see her one last time earlier this week? Why was it hard to postpone meetings, to go to see her one more time? Why is it so easy to forget about the bigger things in life? To equate or confuse the “Urgent” with the “Important”?
Or is it just me? Some questions sometimes have no answer… or maybe we just don’t like the obvious answer…
You see, my grandmother started to forget things shortly after my grandfather passed away. It started with her just repeating herself, forgetting things, starting a pot of rice, right next to the one she had started half an hour before… She was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s Disease about 10-12 years ago. When I saw her last three years ago, the smile was there, her kind gaze was there… but
she was not there. My Granma was gone. And I guess I moved on?
So I did cancel meetings, and delayed others, and went home to see her one more time. And I’m glad I did.
Granma Sen (with her and Grandpa on each side of me, circa 1975)… may you rest in peace.
On to the planned trip… wow! Awesome recommendations… Thank you all! Thanks for the PM’s as well… I know I haven’t answered all yet, but I will.
I have accepted all recommendations (with the exception of the two listed a little ways below) and will be tracking them over the next 4-5 months via excel spreadsheet (screenshot of it below... tried to attach the actual file but couldn't?).
So far, the main criteria in the spreadsheet are:
- Improvements
- Inspect / Replace
- Spares / Emergency,
- Other, and
- Camping / Hiking
Thanks
Dagha Boy,
Healey,
SRTRDR,
1911,
pngunme,
roma042987,
bikersmurf,
kerplunk,
Weber Sargefor the help and excellent general advice… And thanks to everyone else for the kudos / thumbs up…
This list is a work in progress, so additional recommendations are welcomed! The items with a question mark (e.g. replace alternator, fuel and water pumps, brake lines) mean that I will make up my mind regarding replacement after closer inspection. Same applies to the roof top tent, electric fan and storage drawers… I’m just not sure yet.
On the "Won't pursue for now list":
- Irish11. The BMW 3-series seat ideas sounds cool… but I’d prefer to not change my seats. I guess I was just hoping for a possible contraption that would allow for the stock seats to recline back a little… they are a little too upright for my comfort… but they are generally comfortable and look great!
- pngunme, tls3601 - The firearm recommendation is logical, but it’s a “no can do” based on the places I’m planning to visit. And frankly based on where I live too… many hurdles to jump.
Progress this week:
- Ordered Metal Tech’s rear bumper with three “fuel can” holders. I will use two for fuel and one for water. I should receive it within 4-6 weeks.
- Ordered the Tuffy console. I should have it before the end of the year.
As far as the places I’ll visit, the plan at a high level is to avoid large cities and highways as much as possible… it's a case of "been there done that." I am also aware that I am skipping a great number of awesome parks in the Southwest (
handcannon, I did get to go to Crater Lake two years ago… just spectacular!) it’s just that I’ve been to most already… and I do need to get back to the Northeast at some point! J
I will go to Glacier NP, and Badlands, and Grand Tetons, and others. More on this part of the planning stage soon.
And
powderjay, thanks for the “get together” offer… I’ll reach out to you as I get closer to “The Day”!
One more ask… I either buy a set of well-designed drawers to put in the back, to help organize things, and to put away those items that I am likely (hopefully) to not need, or get used to a mad scramble every time I need something from back there… any suggestions?
I’ve been looking at ARB Outback Solutions… as a potential solution. Any others?
DSRTRDR,
pngunme. I’m guessing you guys are probably fun to be around?
