Im installing Bilstein 5100s on my 2007 fj. When I took the rear shock, it had a third metal washer that fit into the mounting hole where the shock goes, it has somewhat of a shoulder to fit into the hole. Are you suppose to use that with the new shock, 2 new washers and 2 rubber grommets? Or just use the new parts. I see why they used it, it keeps the shock centered in the hole? Thanks for any help.