So, learned a lot. Here's what I had to do to the lever
It's about 1/2" longer than it was and it now has enough throw to get from first to park
So, here's what I learned, at great cost to my sanity. And the manual has very little to say, it's not wrong, it's just not helpful.
There are two adjustments you can make. You loosen the two bolts on the 'banana bracket ' and adjust the position of the shifter, you slide the bracket one way to get more clearance from the dash, the other to get more clearance from the console. Once that's set, then you adjust the all thread connection between the quad lever and the shift lever on the transmission so that it's essentially neutral and can make make it through all the gears. If the shifter isn't quite lined up, and you'll feel it - park or neutral won't be crisp, then try one or two full turns shorter or longer on the all thread (it may not be clear which way it has to go) until it shifts easily.
With the tranny out of the car, this is really simple. What I think happened to mine was that it was adjusted out of the car, and when it went in the dash was in the way, and it had to be adjusted in the car, and that lost me neutral safety switch because you can't really install that in the car. Then changing the transfer case introduced interference with the linkage cables. So, the shop just bent the lever out of way.
That essentially shortened the quad lever meaning that the Lokar no longer had enough throw to get all the way from Park the 1st. So, I lost 1st. It also meant that the steps on the lokar from gear to gear were no longer the same as on the transmission - that means when the Lokar is in 2nd, the transmission isn't competely in 2nd - which could have caused other problems.
One thing to note, the Lokar has it own set of detents and lock points, that's what makes it effective. It locks into Park and Neutral for safety. It's really important that the lokar and the transmission are moving together so they work.
I had to do redo the setup with the tranny in the car which is a huge pain in the was. Each time, you have to disconnect from the transmission (from underneath) and from the lokar (from above) and make the turns on the all thread. Put it back in, and see what happens. I got it, then I had to loosen the button screws and the banana bracket, moving the shifter alignment, and then I had to align the all threat all over again. Took hours and hours.
Giant PITA. That's a job I never want to do again.