Yea I cant imagine a way for a friend to get your email information. If you are in the military then you have some sort of security clearance and you know that your email is very important to keep secure as there are some things that can be security risks if they got out of your inbox. Your "friend" had to have your CAC card and a card reader in order to get onto your military email. Unless he is a good hacker. To me this seems like BS, although I do not know the whole story and am only speaking on my experience in the military. That may answer some questions that guys have about the possibility of someone stealing an identity