I hear you brother,
When I go out to Winchester to see my dad it amazes me when I go to the store and the employees offer to help load the truck and everyone smiles and says hello. WOW, not here where I live. But, on the other hand there is no place to get a good cup of coffee, no Borders in walking distance with nearly every magazine that in print, no Fresh Fields, etc.
I am a city slicker I guess.
Other Cities are not as bad as DC and at least we have the manly mecca of Manassas to supply our steel, welding, car parts, etc. My fellow Hispanic bretheren are taking over though so that may change but they too work on their own cars and the whole car culture in LA is built on their labor...
-Stumbaugh