Hi Clint
Just a bystander, do not have the same system.
Was wandering if the vacuum solenoids need to be active at all time that vehicle is on, or just when desiring to change transfer position, either way (somewhat momentary, till position is gained).
For example, if the vehicle is shut off and switch is not engaged, transfer should probably retain previously set position.
Logic specify that nothing should be happening while vehicle is shut off, thus implying that the action of changing transfer position is supposed to be momentary and shut off when position is gained or by means of timer with suitable time frame, or by the driver when he sees indication the position of transfer had changed according to whish.
Let me know if I am missing something as I am not familiar with the specific system ECU.
For me, if I had to do it on my vehicle, I would probably use a DPDT M,OFF,M toggle (or rocker) to control the two solenoids, manually by the driver, and use the 4wd light (or the sensor itself directly with a led indicator) as indication to stop activation of desired position.
This way bypassing the ecu completely.
Hope this helps any, or at least does not confuse.
Good luck