I'd go for a Honda or KTM. Honda's are pretty bullet proof. KTM's are too.
For my money around here, I'd go with a Honda 1st, and the KTM or Yamaha 2nd.
KTM has a long enduro history in the worst conditions. Sure, they are team supported bikes, but so are all of the other brands and if the bike isn't tough, it will die regardless. Most of the world touring enduro guys ride BMW's or KTM's due to wide parts networks. Here in North America, BMW and Honda have the best parts network.
Paris Dakar Overall Moto Wins By Year
2005 KTM, Despres
2004 KTM, Roma
2003 KTM, Sainct
2002 KTM, Meoni
2001 KTM, Meoni
2000 BMW, Sainct
1999 BMW, Sainct
1998 YAMAHA, Peterhansel
1997 YAMAHA, Peterhansel
Here's the top 10 overall bike finishers in the 2007 race.
1. 2 Cyril Despres F KTM 690 Rally Gauloises KTM 51:36:53 0:00:00
2. 8 David Casteu F KTM 690 Rally Gauloises KTM 52:11:12 0:34:19
3. 9 Chris Blais USA KTM 660 Rally Red Bull KTM USA 52:28:59 0:52:06
4. 6 Pal Anders Ullevalseter N KTM 660 Rally Scandinavia 53:14:50 1:37:57
5. 10 Helder Rodrigues PT Yamaha 450WRF Bianchiprata Compet Vod 54:07:34 2:30:41
6. 23 Janis Vinters LT KTM 660 JV Moto Team Riga 54:21:14 2:44:21 3:00
7. 20 Michel Marchini F Yamaha 450WRF -- 54:37:20 3:00:27
8. 85 Thierry Bethys F Honda 450 CRFX Honda Europe 55:03:26 3:26:33 3:00
9. 103 Jaroslav Katrinak SK KTM 660 Mol Dakar Team 55:17:03 3:40:10 10:00
10. 16 Jacek Czachor PL KTM 660 Rally Orlen Team 56:00:57 4:24:04
These numbers show that the majority of winning bikes were KTM, but they are all big bikes.
Let's look at racing in Norte America...
SCORE Baja 500
Since this summer classic began in 1969, KTM has never won the overall motorcycle title while Honda has won for the last eight consecutive years. In the two races since KTM has again fielded a factory team, the record stands even at 1-1. Honda finished first and KTM second in last November’s Tecate SCORE Baja 1000 and KTM broke Honda’s 10-race winning streak in February at the Tecate SCORE San Felipe 250.
Your wife needs a small bike. A lot of the technology carries over to the small machines, but for a solid all around ride, I think I'd still have to go Honda. Your wife isn't riding in the Baja anytime soon is she?
I just thought these numbers were interesting. You can go back and forth, but Honda's and KTM's pretty much seem to pull in a lot of the endure records out there.
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