Got ms B as a rescue, had her over a year, will dig up previous posts.
I know she's sound sensitive: dropped items make her spook, the clicking of my toaster oven sends her sulking away, and I've worked around it.
But today I've things to cook, in that toaster oven. She's sunbathing in the yard, so I think it's safe, I start the timer clicking. Many burgers later, as I'm about to finish w/a stir fry, she comes to me, for help.
Tail between her legs, sure she's next for whatever the horrible thing is, she comes to me, her entire body shivering, asking if I can keep her safe. I tell her helpful words, which I mean, and calm her with love and pets and sweet words, and all the time I'm thinking how can I help this dog to let go of her fear.
She's trusted me so far: to take her from the pound, to scritch her belly and play-bite when she feels safe -- how can I get her to trust me on this bigger (to her) thing?
Could stop what I've been doing, keep her 'safe', but I'm also reluctant to change my life patterns for a dog, and I don't care to live w/a dog who caint learn, so I wait until she's gone outside again to finish up the fry.
An hour later when I feed her dinner, her tail is high, she's not afraid anymore.
Now what?
I know she's sound sensitive: dropped items make her spook, the clicking of my toaster oven sends her sulking away, and I've worked around it.
But today I've things to cook, in that toaster oven. She's sunbathing in the yard, so I think it's safe, I start the timer clicking. Many burgers later, as I'm about to finish w/a stir fry, she comes to me, for help.
Tail between her legs, sure she's next for whatever the horrible thing is, she comes to me, her entire body shivering, asking if I can keep her safe. I tell her helpful words, which I mean, and calm her with love and pets and sweet words, and all the time I'm thinking how can I help this dog to let go of her fear.
She's trusted me so far: to take her from the pound, to scritch her belly and play-bite when she feels safe -- how can I get her to trust me on this bigger (to her) thing?
Could stop what I've been doing, keep her 'safe', but I'm also reluctant to change my life patterns for a dog, and I don't care to live w/a dog who caint learn, so I wait until she's gone outside again to finish up the fry.
An hour later when I feed her dinner, her tail is high, she's not afraid anymore.
Now what?