ok, think I can help...as i had a hell of a time getting the dash pad off for my stereo install....and really should not have been a problem at all, just as Crick60 said.
1. you don't need to remove the gauge cluster...just undo the five screws and slide the cluster forward on the steering column. There's no need to remove it. If you really want to you can do it after the dash pad is off.
2. Remove the glove box and the dash bezel. Both are straight forward, just un-screw all the screws.
3. For the dash pad there are 2 screws on each side - by the doors, the back one is slightly difficult to get to, but not bad. You can see them with the doors open.
4. there are two nuts now that you can access with the glove box removed and the cluster pulled forward. For the passenger side there is one basically in the middle of where the glove box is and the other closer towards the edge of the door. You can see them by looking through the opening where the glove box door was. Loosen them...you don't need to remove them, just get them loose.
5. the two on the drivers side are in the same location as the passenger side, just flipped. You can access them with the gauge cluster pulled forward...loosen these...leave the nuts on so that they don't drop down. the driver's side was easier to get to as the vents weren't in the way as much.
6. Next, towards the center of the dash pad are two clips (these gave me a hard time...only because I was concerned with jacking the dash cap up...you don't have to be). holding the dash pad onto the body...with the four bolts loosened you can slide the dash pad back towards you to free it up...don't go up and down as the clips are horizontally holding the dash pad to the body. You might have to wiggle the pad side to side a little...but what you really want is the pad to slide back towards you. once the clips release the dash pad is free to come off (aside from any wires connecting the radio to the wiring of the car).
It's really straight forward. Don't be afraid to pull back on the dash pad pretty good once you have the bolts undone. ( you can reference page BO91-93 in the FSM for some diagrams.