any other lessons learned from the rest of the group regarding "oh I wish I had brought..." We have only camped a few times and our gear is kind of sparse so I will be acquiring some stuff.
Anybody bringing small generators or anything?
Anybody bringing dogs? Mine aren't well behaved and we're already going to be kind of Griswold-ish. I hate to kennel them.
I'm no pro but do have some thoughts on a few of your questions.
I'd prefer we not have a generator in camp unless it is essential. It's really annoying. But if it is required for some medical equipment or something, fine; if just an amenity to power lights or tablets for the kids - well, we're camping, and lanterns take up far less space.
As a dog person, define "not well-behaved:" are they aggressive towards people/animals, do they run off? (leave them home) Or are they just rambunctious and like to play? (which is expected of a dog and totally cool imho) FWIW my dog will wander off - which is no fair to everyone else, having to take time to try and find him, plus I'd really hate to lose him - so he probably will not be with me. Also, if the dogs have never camped before, their reactions could be unpredictable - the 1st time I took each of my dogs camping, I didn't sleep b/c each dog didn't sleep.
Set up your tent in your yard and let them explore it on their own. Throw a familiar blanket in there so they are at ease. Take a quick nap in it with them.
Your dogs will be out of their environment and they will be stressed. If you've not camped a great deal, this could make your trip miserable (or they may respond great to it, they're strange creatures). I'd suggest that until you have a camping rhythm and can accomodate your
family comfortably, hold off on bringing them.
One other thing, in fairness to everyone else on the trip, resolve any mechanical issues before the trip - all vehicles should be in excellent running condition. Trail-caused issues are one thing; showing up with known problems is another.
I always find myself asking, why did I bring so much crap?

Think about what you need. Personally, I need a chair, a tent, cooking stuff, food and drink, some tools and fluids, personal lights, a book/charged Kindle, clothes appropriate to the weather. I go to enjoy the company of others and to enjoy the outdoors, which doesn't require a ton of gear. I may bring my rc crawlers just for fun though.
