How do I clear the codes?
Since taking this to a shop have you tried to pull new codes. Make sure the old codes are cleared first by pulling the EFI fuse for a few minutes. Then take it for a putt, and check for codes again.
NOx is nitrogen oxides. It's controlled by the EGR. It looks like they don't test for this where you live. They don't in NM either. Dang, you have done a lot to chase this down. One item not on your list that has been suggested was a valve adjustment.