That is odd where it's leaking oil. I had a coolant leak from that spot one time but not oil. I don't think there are any oil passages on that top side of the block, just coolant passages. Just some thoughts seeing that picture: Is the oil leaking from somewhere else (like a valve cover) and traveling that way? Somehow leaking from the small turbo and running down that side? Oil cooler is lower but why would oil travel against gravity. If it's not leaking and traveling to that spot then you may have to pull the head and check it out. If it's leaking from somewhere else I'd still do a re-torque of the head.
Yes, a torque pattern is specific. You can type in "6bt head torque pattern" into google and look at the first image. A 6bt pattern will work because the number 1 bolt to start with is the same on the 4bt and 6bt so that will get you the pattern (it's a circular out pattern starting in the middle).
The first time torquing down I lubed the studs and nut washers with arp lube and did it in steps, ~60 ftlbs on all nuts following the pattern, then starting at bolt 1 again going to ~110 ftlbs on all nuts, then ~125 ftlbs, and finally 135ftlbs. On the re-torque I started at bolt 1, loosened just that nut and made sure I still had lube on the threads and retightened it to 135ftlbs. I went to bolt 2 and did the same thing of loosening, checking for lube, and re-torqueing to 135ftlbs until I finished them all. Then, because I was paranoid I did a re-torque one more time that session. I ran the engine gently for a week to get in some heat cycling and then re-torqued again two more times the next weekend. I'm sure this was overkill but with my plan of running more boost and playing with timing I wanted to make sure I got that sucker clamped down.