I did some digging. It sounds like I have several options.
One is to swap with an AC amp from a 62, which supposedly is triggered by a 12v ignition signal vs a tach signal. This will keep it fully functional, except the clutch will be engaged any times the ignition is on, even while starting, adding drag to the starter. (I could wire to cig outlet, which is off while starting.)
Another is this tach signal generator thingy.
https://forum.ih8mud.com/threads/a-c-tach-signal-mod-for-v8-conversions.628690/ It sounds like he had the same issue - the tach signal wasn't strong enough or whatever enough to trigger the 60's AC system.
"... I wired up the A/C circuit like I thought it was supposed to be wired. One of the signal wires coming out of the Vortec PCM is the tach signal wire. I thought I would just wire up this tach signal wire directly to my A/C amplifier tach signal wire and all would be well. Well, it doesn't work. (Since I don't have an oscilloscope, I can only assume that the PCM generated tach signal isn't strong enough for the FJ60 a/c amplifier to pick it up)..."
There are other methods that involve opening up the under dash bits to install a temperature switch, but I don't want to get into all of that.
I want it to be as little of a 'hack" as possible. I've got some more digging to do, but the 62 AC amp might be the cleanest thing to do.
Before I get into all of that... how can I test my original system downstream of the coil (-) wire? I know it worked before, because when I first hooked up my TBI, I didn't have a tach or AC. Reconnecting the coil (-) made them functional.