I just went through your steering nightmare thread... and your Aussie Locker removal thread.
You may want to check and see if those axles are from a FJ80. That may be the reason things didn't match up and you had to by some used parts.
If those axles are FJ80's, you may want to just swap out the axles you have for some stock FJ60 axles. That might solve all your problems.
Those are stock FJ60 axles, not 80 series. Easy to tell the difference if you give them even a cursory look.