Well here's an update on the 4.56s:
F'ing money t*ts!!!
Overall the swap was really straightforward except I didn't listen to @orangefj45 when he told me the limited slip had to go in the front. Well, I f'd that away and got to remove a crapload of "the right stuff" (silicone sealant) for transgressions in addition to undoing everything I'd already done.
Drilling the pinion flanges was a motherb*tch. That metal is tougher than woodpecker lips. Drill bit size is 7/16" for an ~11mm hole.
Bottom line:
If you're going to run an NV4500 and 33" or bigger tires, you better run 4.56s, at least. I live in San Diego and it's pretty hilly in north county and I used to be a traffic hazard in the far right lane pulling hills at about 45mph. Well, not anymore. 2nd gear starts are now the norm, my foot is not "in it" all the time, and I can cruise down the highway in 5th gear without bogging.
Overall the Mule is MUCH MORE enjoyable to drive now. I can't believe I waited this long to make this happen.
I'll try to get actual numbers when I can, but at a glance I saw about 70mph, 2400ish rpm, 10-11PSI, 1100EGT, 5th gear.