Alright, I'm "cautiously" optimistic that I'll make PP18.
After several frustrating weeks, I made one final effort to get the engine running smoothly. It seems to be there now. Being a noob to all this has made it very challenging.
So here's what I've learned so far;
The evap system wasn't working properly. Thanks Pablo for setting me straight. The check valve was bad, and I ended up changing the set up in the engine bay, using the vacuum valve from the original fj62.
I relocated and replaced the fuel pump with one that JMack recommended. I actually relocated it twice. At first, I had it on the rear cross member where the rear shocks mount. I then got to reading about inline fuel pumps. It was mentioned to not use any 90* fittings or flex the hose in a tight radius, as it makes the pump work harder. So I moved it to the frame rail. The downside to its current location is that it's actually louder now, as if it's resonating down the frame rail. I'll have to try a few things to see if I can dampen it somehow.
But before all that, I couldn't get it to even go around the block. From the fsm, I ran every diagnostic for the ecu and ignition system, twice. It ran fine for the initial test drive when the rpm's were high, but would die at every stop sign. The ecu wasn't throwing any error codes. I just couldn't figure it out. My LC buddy was convinced that it was my O2 sensors. Turns out that was it. I missed one of the diagnostic pages that had a more in depth testing of the sensors. Swapped them out, and now I have a steady idle.
I took it out for a 30 minute drive today, best feeling ever after so many frustrating days.
@cruiserbrett thanks again for taking the time to help me out. I have a beer with your name on it for whenever we meet face to face.
Tomorrow I'll get some more driving done. I have about thirty more miles to put on it before changing out the break in oil.
Question for the experts, I've read that I should change the oil again after 500 miles. I don't know if I can put that much on before the 500 mile, one way drive, to the North Rim. Am I going be messing anything up if I wait to change it again until after the 1,000 round trip? I've also read to not drive it over 55mph for the first 1,000 miles. Really??