the alarm going off isn't a scientific test. it going off would normally be a bad thing. we don't even know what alarm you have. what was going off, the stock horns or some aftermarket siren?
you went forward. you got rid of a suspect battery cut off switch and wiring. we now know you have a good battery and fusible links. changing the relay was probably unnecessary but you didn't test the old one before replacing it so we don't know for sure.
get a multimeter
put it in continuity mode
remove each fuse from the engine fuse box and cabin fuse box and test across the tangs; this includes the big red fuse
replace any bad ones
replace the GAUGE 7.5 with a proper 10A. and any others that aren't right
put the good ones back
key in pos2, ign on
what does your cluster look like?
now put your DMM in DC volt mode
test for voltage at each fuse in both boxes
what is working, and what isn't?
the EWD shows how to perform these tests, but if something doesn't make sense, just ask
you went forward. you got rid of a suspect battery cut off switch and wiring. we now know you have a good battery and fusible links. changing the relay was probably unnecessary but you didn't test the old one before replacing it so we don't know for sure.
get a multimeter
put it in continuity mode
remove each fuse from the engine fuse box and cabin fuse box and test across the tangs; this includes the big red fuse
replace any bad ones
replace the GAUGE 7.5 with a proper 10A. and any others that aren't right
put the good ones back
key in pos2, ign on
what does your cluster look like?
now put your DMM in DC volt mode
test for voltage at each fuse in both boxes
what is working, and what isn't?
the EWD shows how to perform these tests, but if something doesn't make sense, just ask