Ceby, I went the same path as Jason (Cruisin'). We basically have the same suspension details including his custom caster correction plates, with the exception that I have 1.1 inch spring spacers as well, bringing my lift to 5.1 inches.
I too was having the exact same vibration issues you were talking about - front shaft causing 90% vibration around 30mph, rear shaft causing slight 10% vibration. On Jason's recommendation I went with the first gen 4x4 shaft DC end, that a driveline place welded to my stock front driveshaft. The vibration actually got worse after that. This was due to the DC joint SLIGHTLY nicking the edge of the transmission pan seam. I clearanced the seam about 2mm and immediately the vibration went away.
I'm still left with a slight vibration from the rear (or maybe something else)? Tempted to have the rear shaft balanced, even though it's still stock. All u-joints are fresh (and OEM). First I'm going to remove the spring spacers to see if they make a difference at all.
FWIW, I too have the same "whining" noise when on throttle, mostly part throttle, after the DC shaft was put in. NO idea why, can't figure it out. Been like that for a couple years now.
PS. yes I know I need to pressure wash the underside of my truck