First off, with the impact gun, you should not need to heat, or to put the 14mm socket in the flexplate. Try it with impact only first, you may be impressed.
Questions:
1) is there a link on mud to pulling the Rad? I know it is straight forward enough in the FSM...but I'm a visual learner.
pull bottom hose first, drain as much out as you can, while taking the cap off to allow to vent. take top hose off, the hose to overflow and the small one in the middle. While that is draining, loosen the tightner on the alternator, and then pull four bolts on fan blade (on waterpump). Take two bolts off shroud at top, then pull the shroud with the fan.
There are two bolts you have to take off from the front of the vehicle, that secure the radiator. you need to pull the grill, turn lights and headlights. Really takes about 5 minutes to do this. Bolt is 10mm if I recall correctly. use 1/4 extension to get to them. Two more bolts down on the sides of the radiator, then pull the two transmission cooler lines and plug immediatly with some bolts.
Done.
2) if I heat the bolt, do I need to replace with a new one? ie do I mess up its strength/temper? DONT HEAT THEM UP.
3) the rad and its hoses are less than a year old. But might try to replace low pressure PS hoses and the other ones down at the bottom right side - whatever those are? Those are tranny cooler lines. replace with transission bulk lines.