Honestly as everyone else has said, use search. Your needs/wants/ desired use will dictate your setup.
Mud only, not too worried about lift unless you're racing around on mudflats with pits and moguls. So do some slight trimming and run your 35's
Light to moderate trails with no boulders or logs. 2-3" of lift is nice because you don't need too much compression room or droop.
Light to moderate rock climbing
3-4" of lift is great, but once again a hefty trim can be a much better deal. Allowing you good compression while offering the suspension droop desired for rocks and log obstacles.
Expo rig, run 2-2.5" and heavier...you can see where this is going.
One thing I will tell you is that you should really look into the distant future and focus on what you want it to look and be like and build your suspension off of that. Unlike me who was gung Ho and wanted a wicked 3 link to dominate the very few log and rock trails we have locally, and then decided to make it an all around rig with bumpers and sliders and a sliding drawer tool box and spare tire carrier, winch and onboard air and now my springs are entirely too soft, I have changed shocks 3 times now in changing what I wanted out of the rig. So, decide now what your rig is for, what additions you'll make and it's intended purpose and then decide on lift height and coil rate and shock combo.