It would be clear from my avatar that I tow. It's a pretty heavy rig, over the 200-series spec GCWR of 14,645lbs when I'm on extended vacation.
You make some good points and I agree with them in general against many gas motors. The difference here is that the 5.7L is a brute. With solid low end and ~130hp on the diesel, it will absolutely climb a grade, considerably faster than the diesel. Climbing is all about HP - the very definition of which is doing work to against time. It is immensely capable and pleasant (albeit thirsty) when climbing the many many grades I've done over the Rockies here in the west. Or passing. 268hp would have me sitting with the big rigs in the slow lane at my rigs weight.
The thing about torque is that it can be multiplied with gearing. Re-gearing as you did mention. Because what really matters is torque at the wheels. I'm on 33's and stock gears, which would be a disadvantage. Towing above rating rated spec. Yet performance is still solid and pleasant. Credit to the 5.7L lug underhood.
Importantly, a diesel driveline is generally heavier, further subtracting from payload. In the 200-series case, I believe the diesel configurations I've seen are significantly de-contented to save weight and preserve payload.
I don't dislike the 5.7l...it's a solid gasoline engine. Certainly it has a proven track record at this point.
The 4.5l v8 though is in a different league...it doesn't have to work as hard nor does it expend the same amount of fuel to accomplish the same tasks as the 5.7l v8. And while million mile gasoline v8's create a stir here in North America, Toyota diesels hit the mark all the time, often in much more arduous working conditions with very limited maintenance. Million mile gasoline engines are marketing sensations here in North America; for overseas diesels, there is no celebration because such longevity is simply expected from the end-user.
You say that 268hp wouldn't be enough to go up certain grades out west at a reasonable speed? Well, I'll point out that you're not likely getting the full 381hp from your 5.7l at that scenario (horsepower loss due to elevation and thinner air). The turbo-diesel, while it suffers a penalty at elevation, doesn't encounter the same magnitude of loss. As well, the diesel is giving you 480lb-ft of torque at 1600 RPM's...you're getting more horsepower at much lower RPM's, and that low-end grunt is what helps you get started and transition from one gear to the next. Will the 5.7l start to outperform as it revs higher & higher? Yes, with the caveat that the engine is extremely loud and thirsty while "outperforming" (some people prefer to avoid that kind of experience). That doesn't mean the 4.5l is a slouch by comparison.
I really think you owe it to yourself to drive one of those 4.5l's before you judge it so harshly.
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