Daniel Sterns is not a plug and play harness, it is only parts you must assemble.
The one from 4crawler appears plug and play, cheap, and designed for toyota's ground switched systems.
Although I'm not sure, I think the others (rally, ARB, etc) are not designed specifically for Toyota's and certainly not for FJ60s. The one above is specific for a two light, ground switched system. That one, like the one I am trying to build drom Daniel Sterns' parts, should just be the following:
Step 1 - Unplug your stock headlights
Step 2 - Plug the new harness into your headlight plugs
Step 3 - Plug the harness' headlight sockets into your stock headlights (or upgraded H4s)
You, of course, also need to mount the relays somewhere in the engine compartment and route the wires, but that is all it should be.
I really think I am going to buy one of 4crawler's harnesses (they run $40-60 depending on relays used, etc) because I don't see how you can go wrong. I will post up here, obviously, if and when I do that. The only problem i could see is that he seems to build his for pickups and 4 runners, so it is possible some of the wires could be too short to work on a landcruiser.
I sent him an e-mail and told him about this thread (and the somewhat untapped cruiser market). Hopefully he'll post up or send me an e-mail.