Nice work. Just to add a bit here I have had a look at the Toyota part numbers for the bushings and noted the following by position:
Toyota 1/Daystar 1
Upper: 52201-90300
Lower: 52202-90300
Toyota 2/Daystar 3
Upper: 52203-90300
Lower: 52204-90300
Toyota 4/Daystar 5
Upper: 52201-90300
Lower: 52202-90300
All 6 crush tubes have the same part number: 90560-12009
So from this, it appears that the first and last mounts should be identical. On my frame both the front and back frame mounts have the "cup", so identical mounts from that standpoint makes sense.
Not the greatest of pics but you can see the "cup" on the rear cross member. I will measure the distances and diameter of the holes tomorrow so you can have the requested figures.
So if we go with the idea that the first and last body mount should be identical then we should have M02353 for the upper and M02421 for the lower.
That still leaves a problem of the protrusion from the cup for the first and last frame mount. If you look at the Toyota diagram in my post above you can see that the lower bushing for the front and rear has a cup shape to it. Here is the pic of the one removed from my truck:
It appears the Toyota compensated for the protrusion with a metal cap that fit around this shape.
The Toyota lower bushing has the following dimensions:
Outer diameter: ~52mm
Lip width: ~8mm
Inner cup diameter: ~36mm
Center hole diameter: 18mm
The daystar bushing M02421 has an outer diameter of approximately 61mm.
My current thought process is to turn a channel in the underside of the daystar M02421 bushing to allow the cup protrusion to recess into the bushing and have the bushing sit flush to the underside of the frame.
Assuming this is done for the first and last bushing sets, this leaves the middle bushing set to figure out.
From a remaining parts in the daystar kit standpoint, this would leave the middle bushing to be daystar M02388 for the upper and M02850 for the lower.
The M02388 is the one you noted had the larger hole. It's hole diameter is approximately 19mm compared to a hair less than 16mm for all others.
What is interesting is that the original Toyota crush tube is a bit over 17mm in diameter compared to the 16mm from daystar.
So my idea is to enlarge the M02850 lower bushing's hole to either accept the larger Toyota crush tube or source a 19mm diameter crush tube and enlarge the lower bushing to 19mm. I am leaning towards the latter.
What I still haven't done is measure the hole size in the frame for the middle bushing set, but it appears that Toyota used an oversized hole relative to the crush tube size (i.e., the hole is larger than the 19mm Toyota crush tube). So there may be a reason from Toyota for the oversized hole relative to the crush tube to allow for movement.
I don't have all of the old bushing sets with me right now but the Toyota middle upper bushing also had some sort of thick fabric backing on the side that touched the frame. This fabric looked similar to the fabric radiator support mount isolaters. I will try to get a picture of this tomorrow.
Work in progress, but if this can work then new parts from daystar will not be needed... I do agree that it would be good if the daystar kit would be better.
-Geoff