Glad your wife is fine, I also find it curious the airbags didn't deploy but there's a few variables with that system.
I have a lot of LE friends and they have definitely noticed the uptick in people running lights and stop signs. My oldest son just started driving last October and for the past couple years, I've been telling him to count to "2 Mississippi" once the light turns green before going into the intersection. And definitely slow down if your coming to an intersection at speed where the light has turned green and you don't have a car in front of you.
We've witnessed quite a few near misses, and it seems to be getting worse.