Update: I was able to go to MT Schiele yesterday morning, thanks to all for suggesting them and
@SammyT96LX450 for giving them a heads up that I was coming. Both Aaron and brad were great and I would highly recommend them to anyone.
Aaron measured the fuel trims and bank#2 was showing problems. Ended up replacing both O2 sensors and the readings went back to normal. There was some question as to whether it was the throttle body but when he removed the O2 sensor on bank#2 it looked bad (some weird coloring).
I made it to Manhattan, KS without issue and am on my way to CO with a 7hr leg to drive today, hopefully all goes well.
I was thinking of getting a throttle body just in case ($$$) but in my search for issues with it on mud I came across this
THREAD which refers to the same thing I was seeing with the RPM fluctuating at 2k (~65mph). On my last leg I did not notice any fluctuations. It makes sense to me that it is/was a sensor as Aaron measured and as described by @white_lx but what caused it to go bad?? Is it possible the pump is going too? If it was only a bad fuel pump then resetting it via disconnecting the battery would not get it running again with a only a 5min cool down???
So I have had the MAF and O2 sensor fail and I am at 126k miles. I don't think these are common issues on our trucks so I am searching for a root cause. Seeing that I am about 1k miles from home, throwing $$$/parts in it sucks but may be necessary.
Opinion?
Maybe have Lexus in CO check throttle body?
Order a fuel pump?
Just replace throttle body?
As a side note I am sick of my Mud terrains, it makes it hard to tell if my engine is not happy or is it just the noisy/rough ride. If anyone in CO wants a cheap set of Cooper STT let me know I may have to get some ATs.
This is turning into a very $$$ trip....